A renaming ceremony is a non-religious, non-legal ceremony that honours a name change as a milestone in someone’s life and identity.

It can include:

• The story behind choosing the name (as much or as little as you want to share)

• Words of affirmation and acknowledgement

• Supportive promises from chosen family, friends, or community

• A symbolic moment (optional) to mark the transition

• A celebratory close that feels true to you

There are no rules, no expectations, and no “one right way” to do it. The ceremony is shaped around your comfort level and what this moment means to you.

During a renewal of vows ceremony, the couple typically exchanges vows and rings once again, in front of family and friends. The ceremony may be similar to a traditional wedding ceremony, with readings, music, and other symbolic elements, or it may be more personalised to reflect the couple's unique relationship and shared experiences.

The ceremony can be as formal or informal as you want. It can be held in a variety of settings, such as a commercial venue, a park, or a private home. It's a chance for you to reaffirm your commitment to each other and to celebrate your love and the journey you’ve been on together.

Because some moments deserve more than a quiet administrative step.

A renaming ceremony can be:

• A chance to feel held and celebrated in a safe space

• A meaningful way to mark a new chapter

• A supportive gathering for chosen family and loved ones

• A moment of affirmation and pride after a long journey

• A way to reclaim joy, dignity, and belonging

Whether you’re early in your transition, years into it, or simply ready to honour your name publicly — this ceremony is about recognition and celebration, on your terms.

No. A renaming ceremony is symbolic and celebratory. It doesn’t replace legal name change paperwork — it honours the meaning of the moment.

Deciding who to invite to a renaming ceremony is a personal choice and will depend on your individual circumstances and preferences. However, there are a few key considerations to keep in mind.

First and foremost, you will likely want to invite the people who are closest to you and who have been supportive of your transition. This may include close friends and family members, such as parents, siblings, and grandparents, as well as your partner or spouse, if you have one.

You may also want to invite members of your chosen family or community, such as other trans people, allies, or mentors who have played an important role in your journey.

When making your guest list, it's important to consider the sensitivity of the occasion and the potential for hurt feelings or misunderstandings. If you are not out to certain family members or friends, or if they are not supportive of your transition, you may need to make difficult decisions about whether or not to invite them.

The guest list should reflect your own values and priorities, and should include the people who will be most meaningful and supportive to you on this special day.

Remember, a renaming ceremony is a celebration of your identity and your journey, and should be a safe and supportive space where you can feel validated and loved.

Anywhere you feel comfortable — your home, a backyard, a private venue, or a quiet outdoor location. I’ll help you shape the ceremony to suit the space and the people attending.

That’s completely normal. My role is to guide the process gently, help you find words that feel like you, and make the ceremony feel calm and supported — not overwhelming.